Justice For Sade Robinson: Protection For Yourself
The tragic story of Sade Robinson is a stark reminder that monsters can hide in plain sight among us normal folks. I’ve already started talking to my 7-year-old about this reality. She once asked, “Mom, are monsters real?” And I told her, “Yep, sweetie, but they might look like teachers, cops, people at church, or even family sometimes.” Sade, a 19-year-old college student, vanished after a first date in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. The more we learn, the scarier it gets.
When a friend reported Sade missing on April 2, and she didn’t show up for work or respond to calls, the worst fears came true as the investigation unfolded. Maxwell Anderson, 33, got charged with first-degree murder and dismembering Robinson’s body—a chilling twist to their first date on April 1. This tragedy left a community grieving and raised important questions about safety when meeting new people, especially online.
After such a heart-wrenching incident, it’s crucial to talk about safe dating practices, like sharing your plans with friends or family, meeting in public, and trusting your gut. Using check-in systems with trusted pals and safety apps that share your location can boost your security. Also, respect and clear boundaries in dating are key. While we can’t predict everything, these steps can offer real protection in today’s dating scene. And it’s vital to have candid talks with young adults about red flags, boundaries, and consent.
Besides safe dating tips, we need to address the harmful habit of blaming victims in assault cases. Instead of focusing on what survivors could’ve done differently, we must hold perpetrators accountable for their actions. Shifting the blame from victims to offenders and educating society on consent, respect, and boundaries is crucial.
It’s also important to remember that dating violence can affect anyone, regardless of gender. While women are more likely to face such trauma, men and non-binary individuals can also be victims. All survivors deserve support and a safe space to seek help without stigma or judgment.
In closing, Sade Robinson’s story reminds us to prioritize safety, educate ourselves and others about safe dating, and shift the focus from victims to perpetrators. Let’s create a supportive environment for all survivors and pave the way for a safer dating world together. Keep those conversations open and honest, respect boundaries, and promote consent. Only then can we tackle the monsters lurking in our society. Let’s stand united and fight for a safer future. Let’s be the change we wish to see. Stay safe, stay informed, and keep making a difference. Remember:
– Meet in public places.
– Let someone know your plans.
– Use your own transport.
– Keep your phone handy.
– Don’t overshare personal info.
– Trust your instincts.
– Opt for safe dating apps.
– Arrange a check-in with a friend.
– Watch the alcohol intake.
– Carry safety devices or apps for emergencies.
Sexual assault and harassment are never cool, seriously. It’s never the victim’s fault, no matter what you were wearing, drinking, or who you were with. The National Sexual Assault Hotline (800.656.HOPE and online.rainn.org) is here for you 24/7, no judgments, just support.
