How to Get Out of A Situationship and Get Picked for Cuffin Season

It's time to update this. I did this story a while back, but the more I see, the more I think you all need to see this again.

I see so many great men and women out in these streets unhappily single. There is a big difference in being single and enjoying life vs. longing to be in a committed relationship. A lot of people find themselves on this endless cycle of dating and getting stuck in situationship after situationship.

The problem with the situationship is that there are not clear cut guidelines. Both parties get to enjoy each other while in theory still living their best lives out in these streets. That's all good until someone's feeling get involved and eventually hurt. Situationship actually can work well, but all parties have to be open to creating some guidelines and boundaries. The beauty of it, is that there are way less societal constraints and expectations. This leaves the two (or more) of you to define what you are and are not on your own terms.

For those longing to make it past the situationship phase or to just get chose, here's a few tiny pieces of advice.

Most People are visual, so create something worth looking at. Modern society has created the normalcy of having others peer into our lives constantly. The gift in that is that you get to control the visual being presented. Even on dating apps pay more attention to the visual being presented. If you are in chill mode, no one expects to be dressed and fully made up. Still don't have crust in your eyes, don't appear sloppy and unkempt. Remember, potential partners are not just paying attention to your face and body. They are looking at how clean your space is, what type of floors you have in your home, are those leather seats in that car pic butter soft? Some of that is an exaggeration but you get my point. Make sure you would be attracted to you before you present yourself to the world.

Not only should you make sure you would be attracted to you. Make sure you love yourself and know how to make you happy. I think one of the  most idiotic things I hear from humans is that another human "makes them happy." I'm over here like no beloved, that's not how any of this works. It's not even fair to place that outside of yourself onto another person. So if that person is going through one of life's difficult moments, they not only have to figure out how to pull themselves back up; they also have to worry about making their partner happy. Otherwise they could quite possibly lose their relationship on top of whatever else they are going through. Make it make sense?

Growing up old folks what always say things like: start out how you can hold out. That is likely one of the most valuable pieces of relationship advice out here. I always say that a lot of successful men lead with their wallets. These same men then eventually find themselves wondering if women are capable of loving them for who they are instead of what they provide. Never realizing, that the thing you use for bate aides in your attraction. Basically you are going to attract more materialistic partners if you are a person who pays to play. Some women lead with their amazing bodies and grow tired of men who "only want one thing." It's the same scenario in bother instances.

Key takeaway here: You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want something different recognize that these people are just reflecting back something within you that needs your attention. Work on that something & watch what happens!

When it comes to the hip-hop industry, few names are as revered as Shawn Corey Carter aka Jay Z. With a discography spanning over two decades, Jay Z's albums have repeatedly pushed boundaries and defined generations, making him one of the most influential figures in hip-hop history.

My friends and I literally consider his music the soundtrack of our lives. The rich variety and depth in his work have left us with an abundant legacy to explore and cherish.

So, for all the hip-hop enthusiasts out there, we're about to embark on a journey, diving deep into Jay Z's discography, dissecting the mastery, and ranking all his albums from the very best to the least impressive (who are we kidding like an unimpressive Jay Z album actually exists.)

Jay Z's journey is nothing short of remarkable. His music has not only entertained but also challenged societal norms, with themes of race, wealth, and success woven into every track.

With over a dozen studio albums under his belt, Jay-Z's discography is a reflection of his evolution as an artist and as a person. Each album tells a different story, each track offering a glimpse into the mind of this living hip-hop legend.

Jay's music has a beautiful way of resonating differently with different people; each album brings a unique flavor to the table, and the 'best' could be different depending on who you ask. But, we're not here to debate, we're here to celebrate the lyrical genius of Jay Z and the profound influence he's had on the culture.

So put on your headphones, crank up the volume, and get ready to enter the world of Mr. Carter. From his groundbreaking debut, "Reasonable Doubt," to his critically acclaimed "4:44," let's dive into the discography of this hip-hop icon and rank his albums.

This is my tribute to Jay Z, a testament to his exceptional contribution to music and culture. Prepare for one well-orchestrated ride. You're welcome.

Regarded as Jay Z's magnum opus, this debut album sets the tone for his illustrious career. His lyrical prowess, coupled with hard-hitting beats, makes it a timeless classic. Tracks like "Can't Knock the Hustle" and "Ain't No N***a" showcase Jay's raw talent and storytelling abilities, while collaborations with The Notorious B.I.G. and Mary J. Blige elevate the album to new heights.

Considered by many as a masterpiece, this album solidified Jay Z's position as one of the greatest rappers of all time. With standout tracks like "Takeover" and "Renegade," Jay showcases his versatility and flawless flow. The production by legends like Kanye West and Just Blaze adds another layer of greatness to this album.

After a four-year hiatus, Jay Z returned with arguably his most personal and vulnerable album yet. Admitting to infidelity and addressing social issues like police brutality, "4:44" showed a new side of the usually guarded rapper. The production by No I.D. perfectly complements Jay's introspective lyrics, making this album an instant classic.

The third installment in "The Blueprint" series, this album showcases Jay Z's growth and continued relevance in the rap game. With hits like "Empire State of Mind" featuring Alicia Keys and "Run This Town" with Rihanna and Kanye West, this album solidified Jay's status as a mainstream superstar

Inspired by the film of the same name, "American Gangster" sees Jay Z return to his roots and deliver a concept album that tells the story of a drug lord's rise and fall. With soulful instrumentals and cinematic storytelling, this album is often considered one of Jay Z's most underrated works.

The first album released under Jay Z's own label, Roc-A-Fella Records, "The Dynasty" showcases the talents of not just Jay but also his proteges. With contributions from artists like Beanie Sigel and Memphis Bleek, this album is a testament to Jay Z's leadership and ability to elevate others.

Jay Z's breakthrough album, "Vol. 2" catapulted him to mainstream success and solidified his place in hip-hop history. With hits like "Hard Knock Life (Ghetto Anthem)" and "Can I Get A...", this album became the soundtrack of an entire generation.

Often referred to as a double album, "The Blueprint 2" is a mixed bag of experimental tracks and commercial hits. While it has some standout songs like "Song Cry" and "Excuse Me Miss," the overall lack of cohesiveness brings down its ranking.

Announced as his 'final album' at that time, The Black Album showcases Jay Z at his most triumphant and introspective. With its masterful production and thought-provoking lyrics, it is a testament to Jay Z's artistic prowess. Standout tracks like "99 Problems" and "Dirt off Your Shoulder" resonate with listeners, further solidifying Jay Z's impact on the music industry. The Black Album is a timeless piece of art that continues to inspire and captivate audiences to this day.

Although it may not receive as much acclaim as some of his other albums, it is a solid entry in Jay-Z's discography. This album features notable hits like "Big Pimpin'", showcasing Jay-Z's lyrical prowess and unique style.

While it's often overshadowed by his other works, this album showcases Jay Z's potential early in his career. With its introspective lyrics, skillful storytelling, and innovative production, it serves as a glimpse into the artist's artistic evolution and sets the stage for the groundbreaking albums that would follow. From the infectious beats of "The City Is Mine" to the introspective musings of "You Must Love Me," Jay Z's sophomore effort is a testament to his growth as an artist and a milestone in the hip-hop genre.

This highly anticipated album marked Jay-Z's triumphant return to the music scene after a brief retirement. While it received mixed reviews from critics, Kingdom Come showcased Jay-Z's undeniable talent and versatility as an artist. The album featured standout tracks like "Lost One," a powerful and introspective song that resonated with fans worldwide. With its thought-provoking lyrics and polished production, Kingdom Come solidified Jay-Z's status as a legendary figure in the hip-hop industry.

Jay-Z's "Magna Carta... Holy Grail" was an ambitious project that aimed to deliver greatness. Despite its grand visions and innovative production, some critics felt that it fell slightly short in terms of lyrical depth when compared to Jay-Z's previous albums. However, it still showcased his unique style and ability to captivate audiences with his distinct flow and clever wordplay. It also included some of his most popular hits, including the smash single "Holy Grail," which featured Justin Timberlake. The album was well-received and earned Jay-Z nine Grammy Award nominations. Despite the mixed reviews, it remains a classic in hip-hop history and is still a mainstay in many people's music libraries.